BDSM in Lviv
The abbreviation BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism. It is such a sexual game when you and your sexual partner take pleasure in pain or when you hurt your partner. To put it simply, BDSM is when she spanked you, and you were not indignant, but excited. The abbreviation itself suggests several scenarios.
Bondage and discipline
A BD Scenario is a time-limited activity with strict role assignments and specific practices. Usually such scenarios do not leave the bedroom.
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Discipline and Sadism
The DS scenario is the transfer of power over your life or some specific areas to another person – a dominant. The second participant is called a submission. And this is exactly the type of relationship that Anastacia and Mr. Gray had.
Sadism and Masochism
Scenario SM – these are actions associated mainly with pain and based mainly on the fact that the sadist likes to torture, the masochist likes to suffer. The main thing to always remember is that this whole thing is exclusively voluntary for all participants in the process.
But such games have their own nuances. The division into lower and upper ones is conditional. For example, a masochist man may force his wife to tie himself up and flog or stab his heels with needles. Not all BDSM practices are violent sex , mistress and humiliation. For example, in a sadism-masochism scenario, everything can be focused on pain. Hot wax, spanking and no sex. There are couples who are constantly in a dominant-submissive relationship. Satisfaction with them brings awareness of their own power even without punishment.
It is important to have at least a superficial knowledge of anatomy. You need to be able to strangle and tie, so as not to harm your health. Humiliation or suffering is only permissible if it can bring pleasure to everyone involved. But if one partner likes everything, and the other in such practices suffers not of his own free will – this is no longer BDSM, but violence.
BDSM has its own taboos:
- practice with minors;
- people with mental disorders;
- taking psychotropic substances;
- people in alcoholic intoxication.
It is important to feel this fine line in order not to turn from a BDSM guru into a killer.